Men are not the only
ones who cheat on their partners. These days more and more women are
found to be guilty of cheating. Infidelity in relationships is
increasing day by day. Every day we read on newspapers about several
crimes which have resulted from such relationships.
Recently I happened to see a magazine called ‘Crime and Detective’ which
had a detailed account of such cases where the woman had affair with
father in law, son, neighbor, husbands friend and so on. With increasing
live in relationships and extra martial affairs Marriages in our
society today do not seem to mean nearly as much as they used to in the
past. What may be the reasons why a woman resorts to such an act? After
some analysis on the subject I came up with some reasons as to why a
woman may cheat on her partner or husband.
Women are emotional creatures. If the main reasons for men who cheat are
physical the reasons for women who indulge in such act are mostly
emotional. Some of the reasons are loneliness, revenge, boredom and self
esteem.
Unsatisfactory Relationship: There are women who get involved in
extramarital relationships purely for sex. Majority of Women who cheat
on their partners are those who are involved in unsatisfactory or
sexless relationships. When she sees that her partner is unable to
satisfy her on bed or fulfill her whims and fancies she looks for
someone who could do so. If a woman is not receiving the attention she
feels she deserves in a relationship, she may be tempted to seek that
attention elsewhere and become involved in an affair.
Loneliness: Many Women get into relationship because she feels lonely.
This is most likely to happen when the lady is a housewife and husband
is working abroad or the husband is a workaholic or who is on tour for
at least 15 days in a month. Instead of looking for a productive hobby
to fill her time she compensates for neglect or lack of attention from
her man with the attention of another man.
Revenge: Many Women cheat because they want to take revenge on their.
husbands when their partner has cheated on them. This tit for tat action
makes them run into the arms of another man. Many women see a cheating
partner as a justification to have an affair of their own.
Excitement: Several Women turn to other men when their existing
relationship has lost all the excitement which used to be there in the
earlier stages.Boredom may also factor into why women cheat. Monotony
and boredom in the present relationship makes some woman to find a
solution in a brand new partner.
Lack of self esteem : When the Woman feel that she is not getting the
deserved amount of attention and admiration from her current partner she
feels insecure and ends up cheating to reaffirm to herself that she is
still attractive and desirable.
Love and Romance: When women feel unloved, ignored or taken for granted
by their partners she may stray. Women look for emotional security and
like to be wined and dined, courted and romanced. So when she is
complimented by another man she feels attracted to that person too and
tries to rekindle the lost romance in her life through an affair. If
another man starts to show care and concern to them, this will make them
to engage in an affair outside.
Money and Power: Women tend to go on affairs with men who hold powerful
positions in the society and are loaded with money and are willing to
provide the material goods like that she feels are missing in her life.
Genuine Attraction or Falling in Love: The Modern Woman who manages both
home and work efficiently comes across many males. It is not quite
unlikely that they may find someone attractive or may be even fall in
love with. Whoever said a married woman cannot fall in love?
Lack of Understanding and Communication
Immitation
Greed and foolishness
To sum up, whatever the reasons for cheating are I don’t think any
religion supports such an act. Moreover, it is not worth losing your
family or health because of such an act
share the blog and add your comments on the three last reasons.
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Men are
not the only ones who cheat on their partners. These days more and more women
are found to be guilty of cheating. Infidelity in relationships is increasing
day by day. Every day we read on newspapers about several crimes which have
resulted from such relationships. Recently I happened to see a magazine called
‘Crime and Detective’ which had a detailed account of such cases where the
woman had affair with father in law, son, neighbor, husbands friend and so on.
With increasing live in relationships and extra martial affairs Marriages in
our society today do not seem to mean nearly as much as they used to in the
past. What may be the reasons why a woman resorts to such an act? After some
analysis on the subject I came up with some reasons as to why a woman may cheat
on her partner or husband. Women are emotional creatures. If the main reasons
for men who cheat are physical the reasons for women who indulge in such act
are mostly emotional. Some of the reasons are loneliness, revenge, boredom and
self esteem. Unsatisfactory Relationship: There are women who get involved in
extramarital relationships purely for sex. Majority of Women who cheat on their
partners are those who are involved in unsatisfactory or sexless relationships.
When she sees that her partner is unable to satisfy her on bed or fulfill her
whims and fancies she looks for someone who could do so. If a woman is not
receiving the attention she feels she deserves in a relationship, she may be
tempted to seek that attention elsewhere and become involved in an affair.
Loneliness: Many Women get into relationship because she feels lonely. This is
most likely to happen when the lady is a housewife and husband is working
abroad or the husband is a workaholic or who is on tour for at least 15 days in
a month. Instead of looking for a productive hobby to fill her time she
compensates for neglect or lack of attention from her man with the attention of
another man. Revenge: Many Women cheat because they want to take revenge on
their. husbands when their partner has cheated on them. This tit for tat action
makes them run into the arms of another man. Many women see a cheating partner
as a justification to have an affair of their own. Excitement: Several Women
turn to other men when their existing relationship has lost all the excitement
which used to be there in the earlier stages.Boredom may also factor into why
women cheat. Monotony and boredom in the present relationship makes some woman
to find a solution in a brand new partner. Lack of self esteem : When the Woman
feel that she is not getting the deserved amount of attention and admiration
from her current partner she feels insecure and ends up cheating to reaffirm to
herself that she is still attractive and desirable. Love and Romance: When
women feel unloved, ignored or taken for granted by their partners she may
stray. Women look for emotional security and like to be wined and dined,
courted and romanced. So when she is complimented by another man she feels
attracted to that person too and tries to rekindle the lost romance in her life
through an affair. If another man starts to show care and concern to them, this
will make them to engage in an affair outside. Money and Power: Women tend to
go on affairs with men who hold powerful positions in the society and are
loaded with money and are willing to provide the material goods like that she
feels are missing in her life. Genuine Attraction or Falling in Love: The
Modern Woman who manages both home and work efficiently comes across many
males. It is not quite unlikely that they may find someone attractive or may be
even fall in love with. Whoever said a married woman cannot fall in love? Lack
of Understanding and Communication Immitation Greed and foolishness To sum up, whatever
the reasons for cheating are I don’t think any religion supports such an act.
Moreover, it is not worth losing your family or health because of such an act
share the blog and add your comments on the three last reasons.
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